Possibilities In Relationships | Daystar Christian Centre | Pastor Nike Adeyemi

Dynamics of Relationships

Relationships shape our lives. From family and friendships to workplace interactions, our connections define our experiences. But have you ever considered the possibilities in relationships? Whether it’s healing, growth, or transformation, relationships carry a divine potential, if we learn to navigate them wisely.

They are the very fabric of life, woven into every part of our journey. Whether with family, friends, colleagues, or even God Himself, relationships determine the quality of our lives.

In Matthew 11:1-10, we find a powerful lesson in the relationship between John the Baptist and Jesus. Their relationship was profound—one a forerunner, the other the Messiah.

John, in his boldness, introduced Jesus as the Lamb of God. But when John found himself in prison, struggling with doubt, he sent a question that seemed out of place: Are you the One, or should we look for another?

How do we go from certainty to doubt in relationships? It happens when circumstances shake our faith. John had witnessed Jesus’ greatness, yet in a moment of hardship, he questioned. But here’s the beauty—possibilities in relationships allow for grace, understanding, and restoration.

Jesus responded not with anger but with affirmation:

Tell John what you see—the blind see, the lame walk, the deaf hear.

In relationships,  do we build or break? Encourage or discourage?

The story of John and Jesus reveals powerful insights:

  • Relationships evolve: From strength to struggle, we must recognize when someone needs support.
  • Offense is a trap: Jesus ended His message with blessed is he who is not offended in me. Unforgiveness blocks the possibilities in relationships.
  • Honest conversations matter: John longed for a visit but never asked. Many times, we assume, instead of expressing our needs.

God designed relationships with limitless potential. The possibilities in relationships include reconciliation, healing, and divine breakthroughs. When we choose love over offense and understanding over assumption, we unlock God’s best.

So, what are the possibilities in your relationships today? Step into them with faith!

An excerpt from the sermon by Pastor Nike Adeyemi  on Sunday, March 9, 2025

Watch this sermon here