Marriage is a beautiful journey, but let’s be honest—it takes work! The good news? You can be one of those couples who thrive, laugh, and build a lasting love story. The secret? Commitment, communication, and a whole lot of understanding. If you desire a love that stands the test of time, let’s explore some powerful principles for succeeding in marriage.
1. Agreement is Non-Negotiable for Succeeding in Marriage
Amos 3:3 asks, Can two walk together unless they are agreed? The answer? No! If you’re pulling in different directions, frustration will follow. To succeed in marriage, you and your spouse must be on the same page—about finances, family, faith, and the future. A house divided cannot stand!
2. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work in Marriage
Ecclesiastes 4:9 reminds us, Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor. Marriage isn’t a solo project. If one person is doing all the work while the other coasts, frustration will build. Succeeding in marriage means both partners give their best—whether emotionally, spiritually, or practically.
3. Handle Your Marriage With Care
Husbands, the Bible says, Dwell with your wives with understanding (1 Peter 3:7). That means listening, showing empathy, and treating her like a treasure. And wives, don’t just focus on outward beauty—let your heart shine, too. Succeeding in marriage means honoring and respecting each other daily.
4. Silence the Critics and Focus on Your Marriage
Too many people speak negativity over marriage. Some say, If it lasts long, someone must be suffering. But that’s a lie! Marriage can be long, beautiful, and fulfilling. Stop comparing, stop judging—build your marriage with faith and effort. Succeeding in marriage requires tuning out the noise and focusing on your own journey.
5. Keep God at the Center for a Thriving Marriage
The ultimate key to succeeding in marriage? Prayer! When challenges arise, don’t fight each other—fight together in prayer. God designed marriage to be a source of love, joy, and partnership. With Him at the center, your marriage can not only survive but thrive!
So, will you choose to invest in your marriage today? Will you build a love story that lasts? If so, you are on your way to succeeding in marriage!
An excerpt from the sermon by Pastor Nike Adeyemi on Sunday, March 23, 2025.
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